I was rebuked recently at a family gathering about certain patterns in my life that show compromise. As usual, a knot formed in my stomach because I was rebuked with everyone present and eyes fixed on me. I grew up being rebuked like this, every member of my family was raised this way and I’m thankful I have realize that such rebuke comes from a place of deep love. I resolved to take gradual steps that put an end to it.
On responsibilities, I reflected on sacrifices my family consistently makes to provide minimum comfort for me and that realigned my focus and commitment to make them proud.
On maintaining focus, I just have to beef up efforts to do this because my life would amount to nothing if I don’t.
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